Good Lord.
What tossers some people can be.
Do you not have the technical know-how to simply black-list and filter out repeat offenders straight to the Trash?
Love the blog, please keep going. Although I would like to see more picture of your beautiful boat. :)
Seriously though Mr D leave off.
You cant please everyone all of the time and sadly sometimes in life some people just dont get it - or get the world and experiences you're having.
Whoever Mr D is he must be sad and lonely and have nothing better to do. Jealousy is not a nice trait and almost all your followers are inspired (and envious) of your trip/life, i guess wishing we had the courage to be doing what you are doing!
Egnore the silly comments, the small minority and carry on living you life as if every second was your last... we love being on your journey and i for one value your willingness to share it with us.
One day there should be an Alex and Taru party for your real firends and those who follow you who are nice people who would love to discuss everything you've done. I cant wait til you get to Asia to see how you enjoy my experiences of it...
I'm a family man and love your blog and get inspired and heartened by your enthusiasm... keep it up and ignore someone who doesnt even deserve the attention and kick they probably enjoy in seeking to wind you up - think big, be inspire and rise above it and remember you have thousands of followers sharing your journey for the right reasons.. not the wrong ones!
Take care
Mark
Sadly, not everyone is sane or stable. Please let us know how things progress with this lunatic.
It's sad but I think I know who this can be, not very surprised.
Why don't you just block anonymous comments? You could allow only the ones with blogger accounts for example.
Give us his blog address and we will harass him back ha ha ha
Hey Taru Alex, Sail on guys! Your documentation of your trip and sailing experiences keep me motivated to do this again one day. My wife and I sailed a Camper Nicholson 83' proffesionally for 2yrs in and around the Carribean several years ago ... We came home to join the rat race but only with the ambition to go back...your trip and experiences keep both of us motivated to do it again ... this time like you ... with our own boat and under our own agenda! Stay true to your quest and F the losers who criticize ... they'll slow you down! Keep up the great work! We enjoy following you both.
Cheers and Fair Winds!!
Steve & Jacqui
Toronto, Canada
S/V Manana
I've only had one person harass me on my blog, and all it took was a comment from a lawyer who also reads it to shut him up. Any lawyers out there?
I moderate my blog now so that all comments have to be approved by me. You also do this I see. Good. It keeps everything civil.
On a brighter note, as a relatively new follower of your blog, I'm enjoying your writing and your photography immensely. Keep up the good work.
First time I've been prompted to post here but I am an envious follower!!
Okay, let's hope this is enough to stop Mr D's comments. The inference is clear and public. He has likely breached a TOS, an ISPs TOS and possibly laws.
Please retain all comments and timestamps from Mr D, even if you don;t publish them. The timestamps are important.
Next, lodge an official complaint-
You will likely get this response.
"Thank you for your note. Blogger is a provider of content creation tools, not a mediator of that content. We allow our users to create blogs, but we don't make any claims about the content of these pages. In cases where a contact email address is listed on the page, we recommend working directly with the author to have this information removed or changed".
Submit this response to your legal counsel.
Google have been far more willing recently to hand over details after a court request -
On Monday 23 January 2012, a High Court Judge in London ordered INTERNET giant Google Inc. to disclose to a UK claimant, data and personal details which it holds in relation to a user who utilised Google’s Blogger to spread defamation against a UK based businessman.
Most countries have, or are in the process of framing a Malicious Communications Act or similar.
If you have legal representation I would advise you to consult with them and retain all such records pertaining to Mr D. I have some cyber expertise that I know is used by law enforcement agencies - VPNs and TOR usually fail to mask the accused due to some simple technical and social engineering tricks that can be utilised in a forensics sting. A lot of inference will hold in court regarding online activity times and online history regardless of whether the information is protected. ISPs will help with this if a court seeks such information. All countries have a cyber forensics team that can be utilised - your lawyer would need to make remonstrations through
an appropriate enforcement agency. Most have global ties, and although are typically geared toward major crime markets, they will depending on the nature of the harassment, at least make some effort to seek information and assist with a prosecution.
If you feel out of your depth, Yair Cofen may be able to offer some general legal advice and should have ties to the correct jurisdictional powers.
http://www.internetlawexperts.net/p/about-yair-cohen.html
By the way, you should be able to seek a gag order without knowing the identity of the accused. However, you would need to make it accessible so that the presumption is made that he is aware of the order and has not refrained. You will have more ammunition for Google and ISPs to work with the right law enforcement agency to expose the identity and prosecute.
I'm pretty sure that with our help you could un-anonymize him... Keep it up, you're doing a great job LIVING YOUR LIFE! I love your blog.
Sounds like Mr. D is a real A$&hole. Marco had some excellent advice and probably (no, definitely) the better advice than mine. My admittedly poor advice would be to find out where he keeps his boat, advise your readers where, and ask if anyone has a waterproof drill. You never know what kind of accidents can happen.
Find out how to block D ( i exclude mr because he doesnt deserve any respect at all ) and be done with him.
You can also report him as a distributor of spam and have his url blocked. Anyway, only a coward with a small and petty mind will behave like he does. Ignore the prick and keep sailing in peace ....
best Chris
That's awful! I hope "Mr. D" gets the message and puts his time to better use than ugly harassment.
Hope we run into you guys on the Pacific side!
a.) I agree with all said above, and hope this pest goes away soon. I suggest you give us his blog info, as well.
b.) I want to make sure any reader understands that while I post as "Jim D", this aggressive low-life person to whom Taru refers as "Mr. D", is NOT me!
Thank you all!
Alex & Taru, I've been a lurker for a couple of years and this post finally got me to comment! I've enjoyed your blog, that's why I follow it! I am not surprised at the cowardice that this MrD displays. I am a high school teacher in the US. Students participate in mean spirited bullying using Twitter & Facebook in an anonymous fashion. We are powerless to stop it as we've contacted social media and they cite our 1st Amendment of free speech, of which I support. However, I find it despicable that people hide behind some pseudonym and say things that they simply don't have the balls to say in person or sign their name to. I hope you out this guy and embarrass him. That will be the only way to hold him accountable for his harassment. It's too bad that the 1% (if that) can muck up our day! Sincerely,
Alex Jomarron
No worries Jim D, it's not you, Just someone else with a first name, or a surname that begins with a D.
Isn't it crazy and sad that someone who "hates" spends so much time on your blog! Why doesn't he just move on? Like you said, he needs help and maybe you should eliminate anonymous if he doesn't stop. Love your blog, BTW!
Tell me please how you can know exactly who this is?
Well he basically fucked it up along the way.
I am so sorry that you have to deal with this ignorant jerk!
How's going?? When do we get to read his blog??
Haven't heard a word since. But we also have a pretty good filter installed since a few days back so can't really tell.
Could this possibly be the case of a retired, 64 year old man?
What did this person write to you, if I may ask?
Like I said I don't want to bring that type of language into the blog where we strive to create a peaceful and harmonic ambiance.
But if I try to cut it down in the most diplomatic manner and excluding the abusive words: this man is basically annoyed and angry for the fact that we young people can create and make a living out of (amateurish) videos, (ugly) photography, an old and ugly dinosaur boat and he's questioning our talents, credentials and can't deal with the fact that people actually can make a living out of something stupid like a stupid blog... He also can't deal with that Alex and I get opportunities and benefits because of our blog.
In the comments he also lives out his fantasies about sex, drugs, orgies in the most absurd and disgusting way. He questions our (stupid) readers, as well as accusing us for lying about everything on the blog and that we don't have as many readers as we have etc etc....
He simply has too much time on his hands and hates the young generation for taking over and being able to maintain a nice life without actually having a conventional education.
Add thousands of ugly words, petty insults and low accusations to that and you should be close.
It is a sad fact of life that there will always be some people who for various reasons cannot enjoy what others have achieved and share in their pleasure. The last thing your life can be described as is simple and easy with not much to do. Anyone reading your experiences will know that you are pretty busy working to obtain an income to fund your journey. You're not just sitting about sipping exotic drinks and chilling all day and partying all night. You also don't have to tolerate his behaviour and legal recourses are available as described above. The man is to be pitied as he needs help, but you don't have to endure him because of it.
Like many others I check out your blog almost every day and really enjoy it. I don't always comment but like many I am here!
Fair winds and warm seas!
Alex and Taru,
I too have been reading your blog for at least a year if not longer and love when I have the time, weekly, to indulge. I envy that the two of you have cast off and sailed away, most of us only dream of doing this.
People are jealous and you shouldn't bother with them. You're not alone, there are others out there that received the same type of mean comments like you, bumfuzzle.com is one, I've also followed them for years. If you're not familiar with them, neither "works", simular to you, they have other means then a boring old "day job".
I enjoy your beautiful photos, ALL of them, your videos and your stories. Keep going and don't let jerks like this get to you.
Safe travels!
Christine
umm Please throw his ass under the bus! We are many, he is a one.. Screw him! Live your life!
My experience, is they are cowards.
cheers! Safe travels.
Jeff
http://blueheronschange.blogspot.com/
Hi,
It is not a pleasant thing that someone focuses his / her negative energy towards you. For people that have such issues I recommend just ignore them. This is how they stop - they are just after attention and when you do not give it they will stop. Maybe it is so bad that you can not do this.
For the blog - I like reading it, but I am hoping you to move on and in the future to read more about life sailing rather than fancy restaurants. New places to south and beyond. Get some new sponsors like Helly Hansen etc. so that you can really get moving and sailing longer distances =).
Ja terveiset erityisesti Tarulle täältä Suomesta. Ilmat alkavat olla jo miinuksen puolella. Viime viikonloppuna oli pakko nostaa vene ylös, joten täällä odotellaan jo kevättä. Hyviä tuulia teille ja menestystä. Erityinen kiitos valokuvista blogissanne, jotka ovat pro luokkaa.
- Topi -
Hi Taru and Alex.
I don't think I've commented here before, but it occurs to me that I might fit the description of your Mr. D. and would like to clarify that I'm not he.
I'm a recently retired admitted sexogenarian (yes, it's true). And I do have way too much time on my hands. I often leave blog comments with no other purpose than to annoy people and usually in the voice of a bitter curmudgeon.
My blogging moniker also fits with the name you've assigned your assailant. But it's not me, honest.
I can't imagine why anyone reading your blog might be making sexual innuendos - unless they were also peeking at the photos.
At any rate, congrats on being able to lead the sailing life that many of us dream of and also being able to pay your way by blogging about it.
Keep up the good work, and tell Alex to keep his eyes on the compass.
- O Docker
smells like tillerman