Went for dinner with this fine lady last night at Gaslight in the trendy South End in downtown Boston. You might remember her from Cartagena? Coincidentally we happened to sail to the same state in which she lives with her family. We're not based on the same side of Boston, but nonetheless Massachusetts.
Gaslight is a French inspired brasserie with a low-lit, comfortable ambiance and pretty good food and wine too. Jade is as you might remember the designer of We Dream In Colour that I have had the pleasure to dress myself in on a regular basis. Her design style speaks to me and the pieces has such good balance between earthy vintage-like and sophisticated glam. It's always inspiring with people who stay focused and inline with their choice of career for a lengthy time, says someone who tried my way through different sorts of own small businesses as well as an array of various industries, and I still haven't quite found that one thing to concentrate on for the rest of my life, except writing and photographing that is (can I just do that forever, please?).
Jade on the other hand, has been designing for her own brand for more than ten years after finalizing four years at the prestigious art school Pratt Institute in New York, and her WDIC keeps growing by the day. The fantastic number of 700 stores carries her jewelry worldwide as we speak. As we discussed last night, that sort of direction and stableness is what one misses out on when choosing to be a full time traveler. A vagabond-kind of lifestyle doesn't offer the sort of stability that is required to ambitiously focus on one great pursue. Except traveling, exploring, boat hustlin', photographing, blogging and sharing the adventures with the world, all of which are rewarding in their own regards too, obviously. But if it's something both Alex and I miss sometimes, it is to settle down again, to have both our belongings as well as work flow in order.
Especially Alex is missing his work and achievements in the music industry as a mastering engineer, a career in an industry which he has been devoted to for close to twenty years. I, on the other hand, semi-professional blogger and freelancing photographer that I've done my best to be during the last three years while out on this great sailing adventure, have more job-related questions to find answers to. Can't escape the fact that money must be made in this world in order to live a comfortable, free and pleasurable life.
As was the original plan with our journey, we must first figure out which place on earth that is the right one for us to settle, and that might still take some time to conclude. And isn't that also an ever changing subject in life? Maybe the United States is a good place to live for a longer time after all. One thing that sure is good here are the enormous opportunities that are nowhere else to be found, in any given industry.
Even though we do miss our beloved Mediterranean enormously (the original plan was like most of you might remember, to be back there much earlier), we do realize that the Southern parts of Europe aren't in very good economical shape. Not saying the US has it any much easier financially, but the opportunities and chances to higher income are obviously much greater here in the US still.
Oh well, when most things are in order, there are still always so many more questions to find answers to. Life is an endless road of decision making and organizing, wouldn't you agree?
I think you are a fabulous photographer and blogger. I wish I had you knack for showing emotion in your writing. You should pursue your passion and I believe you are whether you realize it or not.
My blog writings are so technical for now since I am trying to learn all I can before I set sail. I do not have the fortune of a talented man to come along with me, so I have to learn how to fix an engine or the electrical work myself. Don't worry I love learning all of these things, but I have so much more to learn!
I hope one day to cross paths with you and Alex on those big beautiful oceans out there.
You could easily do so many things Taru and hopefully I'm not being precocious by saying this but perhaps, in your far off stable future life you could would probably to do well to open a boutique store, selling all of the things you and so many other people love. clothes, cheese, wine, good shoes, and "vegan-esque" bread.
For all of it's flaws, you can't deny the fact that the US is the place. The question is, East or West Coast? My guess, West Coast...San Francisco for you and LA for Alex. So, you might consider living on your boat in Santa Barbara.
Sorry, asked this before but worth asking again. Are you allowed to stay in the US, it's not like Europe where we can live where we want. It takes a fair amount to be allowed to work and get a green card.
We have each a ten year visa, it's called B1/2 and must be obtained before entering the US with a private vessel. Speaking of working if that is what we decide to stay and do: there is no need for green card to work in this country, a temporary work visa is enough.
Normally a work visa is applied for when a job and the right location for residency is found (helps knowing where to live, right). Your new potential employer can help you with the application. Or if you wish to set up a business here, you'd naturally need to provide paperwork describing your new endeavor. Because US citizenship and residency are not required, foreign nationals are able to start or expand on US soil without experiencing much more red-tape than an American-born business owner would.